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"Love is a verb. Love – the feeling – is the fruit of love the verb or our loving actions. So love her. Sacrifice. Listen to her. Empathize. Appreciate. Affirm her."

Be Proactive. If there isn't a solution, be the solution. Make things happen.

Begin with the end in mind. Know where you're going before you go, and you'll get there eventually.

Put first things first. Sure, everyone is important, but who is important to you?

Think win-win. It can be amazing for the both of us, lets make it happen.

Seek first to understand, then to be understood. I'm listening, are you?

Synergise. 1+1=3, believe.

Sharpen the saw. There's much to improve on, but we could start by starting here



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Thursday, March 01, 2012

Finally, into words.

As I grow older, I find that there are several voices within me, each wanting a different set of things. I find myself constantly switching between these voices, focusing my efforts on different goals on different points of time. Sometimes these goals are wildly contradictory and I end up pacing around on the spot, not progressing much. Yet there are things that are seeing progress - things that all the different voices, despite their differences, unanimously want. And I realise, these are the things that are truly important to me.

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Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Work - a game of value and control

Work - its about creating your own value, making yourself irreplaceable with your unique talents.

When an employer employs someone, it always comes with a level of expectation. This expectation is usually reasonable, and proportional to the amount of money the employer is willing to pay. Typically, those who don't meet the expected levels of performance get fired, and those that do get hired. But usually it stops there - on the line between getting hired and not - and doesn't get any further. People slog years out at work simply "meeting expectations" see their jobs progress in bits and pieces, but never in bursts and leaps. The reason is precisely because they are only "meeting expectations". If you rewind to the beginning of the paragraph, you would remember that the initial expectations placed on any new found employee are "reasonable", which translates into "easily met", essentially making the person "easily replaceable" with the roughly the same pay, and not worth investing too much on.

If you were an employer an you wanted to hire someone, you would think: $2000 is a reasonable price to pay for someone who can do A,B,C,D,E for me, so I would want to hire a person who can do A,B,C,D,E for $2000. So when you do meet someone who meets those expectations, you happily pay $2000 to hire that person. But after the first year, the person is still doing the same things (A,B,C,D,E), there really isn't much incentive to increase your employee's pay, isn't it?

To be continued.

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Tuesday, January 03, 2012

I dunno why I'm getting scolded for something that I can't control next-to-everyday...
The excuses I give each day are so thin I feel ashamed when I recite them each day.

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Friday, December 02, 2011

Sorry dear...
I know I've been rather tired and less chirpy lately.
All I need is a short break, and this month would be the month for such a break :)

Love you, always.

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